George Lucas Educational Foundation

Parents Are a Secret Weapon Just Waiting to Be Discovered

Scientists say parents partnering with teachers can change the future of education.
By Roberta Furger
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When my daughter was in kindergarten, her school's principal issued an invitation to the adults assembled in the multipurpose room for back-to-school night.

"We need your help," she announced to the crowd of moms, dads, grandmas, and grandpas. Our first opportunity to get involved, she told us, was to join the School Site Council, the group of parents, staff, and community members charged with plotting the direction of the school.

Bright eyed and ready to make a difference, I marched up after the meeting and volunteered. The principal smiled, handed me the meeting schedule, and said, "Great. I'll see you next Monday at 3:30."

That was 12 years ago.

Since then, I've clocked hundreds of hours as a parent volunteer: Besides a five-year stint on the School Site Council, I've participated in technology committees, hiring committees, and school-reorganization committees. I served two terms as PTA president, managed cookie-dough and cheesecake sales, organized flea markets and family math nights, drove on field trips, volunteered in the classroom, and coordinated class parties and teacher-appreciation days.

And although I have lingering frustrations about involvement that at times seemed superficial (we spent less time talking about student achievement than we did planning parties and raising funds), I know the time was well spent. It benefited the school and, without question, it benefited my kids.

For me, there was never a question about getting involved in my children's schooling. My mom had volunteered as the school nurse and later the school librarian when I was young, so it seemed natural and right that I, too, would get involved. And although I've always been employed full time, I've had the good fortune over the years to work for employers who have allowed me the flexibility to adjust my hours or take time off to accommodate my volunteer activities at school.

But for many parents, getting involved at school -- or even fully supporting their child at home -- is anything but straightforward or easy. Many work in jobs that offer no flexibility for illness or other family crisis, let alone the "luxury" of volunteering at school. Others never finished high school, or had such a miserable K-12 experience that they feel ill prepared to support their own child.

Language differences are another huge impediment for many parents. The number of school-age children who speak a language other than English at home increased by 161 percent between 1979 and 2003, according to the U.S. Department of Education. Nationwide, these children account for roughly 19 percent of all K-12 students (though in the western United States, they represent nearly onethird of all school-age children).

Although many schools embrace the linguistic and cultural differences of students and their parents, in many others, the parents' inability to communicate in English is an incredible barrier to participation. Just like English speaking tourists flummoxed about the institutions of a far-off country, immigrant families often feel bewildered by the U.S. public school system. They don't care any less about their children or value education less than English speaking parents, but understanding how the system works, let alone finding a role for themselves in it, is not as straightforward as marching up to the principal and saying, "Sign me up."

Marginalized Parents, Struggling Kids

Such was the case in 1998 at Susan B. Anthony Elementary School, in Sacramento, California, where a high percentage of Southeast Asian immigrant families in the school community spoke little English, lived in poverty, and were almost completely disconnected from the school.

Each morning, they walked their children to the schoolyard gate and then stood outside and watched until the students lined up and headed into class. Parents rarely attended school functions (which were conducted mostly in English), seldom met with teachers, and had little understanding of how to support their kids at home.

Students' attitudes reflected their parents' disconnect. Test scores were among the lowest in the school district, and attendance rates were dropping. In one year, there were 140 suspensions.

As often happens in struggling schools, a culture of blame developed. Parents felt disrespected and marginalized. Teachers said they were unsupported in their efforts to serve the high-need students. Far from being partners, teachers and parents were adversaries. The students, many of whom were failing, were caught in the middle.

"We had to do something differently," recalls Carol Sharp, who was principal at the time. "We had to connect to this community."

That's exactly what the staff at Susan B. Anthony and eight other area schools began doing in 1998. Working with a local community-organizing group, Sacramento Area Congregations Together, the district instituted a pilot program in which teachers visited the homes of their students twice a year. Working in teams of two (teachers often paired up with an interpreter or the school nurse), the school staff reached out to parents and began to forge relationships with the previously marginalized community.

For the first time, teachers shared coffee and sometimes even a meal with their students' families. They listened as parents talked about their hopes and dreams for their children and saw firsthand the daily challenges many of them faced.

Parents, for their part, began to better understand their role in supporting their children's education. They were introduced to strategies for working with them at home. And they received an invitation: Come to school. Help in the classroom. Be our partner.

Be Our Partner

Those few words opened the door to a home-school partnership that transformed the struggling school community. Within two months of the first round of home visits, 600 family members came to school for a potluck dinner and parent meeting -- a trend that continued at subsequent events.

Working together, parents and teachers addressed students' behavioral issues early on, enabling the school to reduce suspensions to five in the year following implementation of the Parent-Teacher Home Visit Project. Student achievement improved, and test scores began to climb. At Susan B. Anthony and at many of the other initial pilot schools, home visits quickly became part of the school culture.

Throughout the district, in fact, schools were transformed by home visits. The pilot program proved so successful that the state enacted legislation to provide $15 million in annual funding for schools throughout California to conduct them. Parents and educators from as far away as Boston and the South Bronx have traveled to Sacramento to learn about the model program.

As dramatic as they were, the outcomes at Susan B. Anthony Elementary School and its counterparts throughout Sacramento shouldn't have been a surprise. Parents have a profound effect not only on the life of an individual student but also on the entire school community.

The Evidence Is In

In "A New Wave of Evidence: The Impact of School, Family, and Community Connections on Student Achievement," published in 2002 by the Southwest Educational Development Laboratory, Anne T. Henderson and Karen Mapp reviewed years of research on parent involvement, and their conclusions are unequivocal: When parents are involved in school, students of all backgrounds and income levels do better. When their parents are involved, kids are more likely to earn higher grades and score better on standardized tests; they attend school more regularly, have improved social skills, and are better behaved in school; and they are more likely to continue their education past high school.

The deeper the partnerships, the greater the opportunities for broad-based and lasting change. Henderson and Mapp also found that high-performing schools share a critical common trait: a high level of involvement with families and with the community.

These high-performing schools, say Henderson and Mapp, focus on building trusting, collaborative relationships among teachers, families, and community members. They recognize, respect, and address families' needs, as well as class and cultural differences. And they embrace a philosophy of partnership in which power and responsibility are shared.

It sounds good. It makes sense. But, unfortunately, partnering with parents isn't the reality in many schools throughout the country.

In their 2004 action brief on the parent-involvement provisions of the No Child Left Behind Act, the Public Education Network and the National Coalition for Parent Involvement in Education cite several reasons for the low level of parental involvement in many schools, including a less-than-welcoming atmosphere, language and cultural barriers, insufficient training for teachers, and lack of parent education or parenting skills.

The most recent MetLife Survey of the American Teacher (the insurance company has conducted an annual teachers' survey since 1984) sheds additional light on this issue. According to the study, new teachers consider engaging and working with parents their greatest challenge (beating out obtaining supplies and maintaining order and discipline in the classroom) and the area they are least prepared to manage during their first year of teaching.

Less than half of the new teachers surveyed were satisfied with their relationship with parents, and a quarter said they were not prepared for the responsibility of engaging parents in supporting their children's education. Principals aren't much more positive about their interactions with parents; only half of those surveyed expressed satisfaction with those relationships.

Perhaps in recognition of the importance of partnering with parents -- and the difficulty some schools have making this a reality -- the federal government requires that schools receiving Title I money have a comprehensive parent-involvement policy. But just as you can't mandate that children be friends and play nicely or that employees always collaborate, you can't require that schools and parents work together -- even for the sake of kids.

Making It Work

Some school communities are working through the challenges, though, and finding new and valuable ways to reach out and partner with parents. Berea Middle School, in Greenville, South Carolina, for example, not only has developed a laptop initiative using Title I funds that provide low-income students with much-needed access to Web-enabled computers, it also reaches out to the school's parent population at the same time. In order to participate in the laptop program, parents are required to attend workshops that teach them how to use and take care of the new computers as well as how to use the laptop to support their children's learning.

"What they've done is transform the entire school into a learning community," explains Tom Carroll, president of the National Commission on Teaching and America's Future. At Berea, parents, kids, teachers, and administrators are all learning new skills in support of student achievement.

C.P. Squires Elementary School, in Las Vegas, Nevada, is another success story. The school combined its resources with those of a neighboring middle school to create a comprehensive program for supporting students and their families. Children at both schools participate in a variety of academic and enrichment classes after school, and their parents, many of whom speak Spanish, attend English-language classes.

Through this whole-family program, both schools have been able to reach out to parents and provide them with an opportunity to further their own education -- a strategy that benefits parents, students, and, ultimately, the entire school community.

Throughout the country, parents and educators are partnering in reform efforts for schools and districts that go well beyond the typical parent-involvement program. In Oakland, California, for example, parents team with teachers, community members, and school administrators to form design teams that develop a common vision for newer, smaller schools. Working with district staff, design teams research best practices, visit schools throughout the country, and ultimately create plans for small schools that are both academically sound and relevant to the diverse community of learners they hope to serve.

In the Bronx, parent groups teamed up with the local teachers' union and the school district to tackle one of the most challenging issues facing struggling urban schools: supporting and retaining teachers. Together, the three groups, once at odds over most education issues, developed a program that pays veteran teachers extra money each year to support and assist colleagues.

Parents, whose initial efforts led to the innovative program, are part of the school committees that hire the lead teachers. The program has been so effective in supporting and keeping teachers, in fact, that it is being expanded to schools citywide next fall.

The Oakland and Bronx programs are examples of what Joyce Epstein, director of the National Network of Partnership Schools, based at Johns Hopkins University, identifies as the fifth type of parent involvement: including parents in the decision-making processes at school. (See "Six Types of Parent Involvement," below, for the full list.) Although such partnerships are difficult and require all parties to move out of their comfort zones, they provide the greatest hope for deep and lasting changes in our schools.

As I've spent time in school communities throughout the country, I've seen firsthand the power of such partnerships to turn failing schools around and transform entire communities. I've seen immigrant parents become school leaders and frustrated teachers become positive, effective educators through such partnerships. And, perhaps most importantly, I've seen how children in even the most challenging of circumstances can thrive academically when the adults in their lives partner to improve schools.

True partnerships aren't easy. They require trust, respect, and willingness to compromise and, ultimately, to share power and responsibility. Although some might argue that's a lot to expect of parents and educators, given what's at stake -- our children and our schools -- is it right to expect any less?

Roberta Furger is a contributing writer for Edutopia.

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william matthews's picture
Anonymous (not verified)

It all starts with parents, and the tougher the parents, the tougher it is to get through to the child. I know it's an age-old adage, the child is only as good as the parent makes him/her be. A clever method that i have used is to try and utilize a lot of metaphors, and analagies to make the kid feel like he's in his own enviroment. I suppose that this is easier to do when you're a discussion oriented teacher that likes to open the class up for debate over historical topics. I have compared the crusades to 911, the civil rights act to current events in my rural area, and also managed to convey poetry with some help from hip hop artests. Kids that lack supportive parents, who don't foster education can relate and start to blossom within the learning process. I have found this very insightful and effective. YOu don't want to stray too far from the content, but I have seen a lot of progress from my kids that have been neglected throughout their young lives.

William Bouman's picture
Anonymous (not verified)

The partnership between the parent and the school in educating children is a hot issue at the school of my daughter. They don't see parents as a neccessary evil, and that's a new approach.

They also wrote a book Educative partnership between parents and school. Vision and realisatie at (Dutch:'Educatief partnerschap tussen ouders en school. Visie en praktijk op')

linnae's picture
Anonymous (not verified)

I have been an active parent volunteer for both my children, when the school allows me to be. I have a background in museum education, designing programs for children of all ages, in a wide variety of topics. Each year I offer to design a program on the topic of the teachers choice. I have only once in 9 years had a public teacher take me up on my offer. I have had private school teachers take me up on this every year. These are programs that I charge several hundreds of dollars for and I am offering them free of charge to these schools. I really don't understand why they will not accept my offer. Using the talents and gifts that parents can offer provides enrichment and resources to cash strapped schools. Consider using this resource.

Angie Koponen's picture
Anonymous (not verified)

Every time I see an article like this it makes me want to cry. When my daughter was in school I volunteered as much as I could through grade school. I was working full time and going to school myself while she was in Jr. High., so could not be quite as involved. I did, however, try to be a very involved parent while she was in high school. While the school complained that parents weren't monitoring their children's academic life, they shut parents out. First in the whole parking lot there were only two visitor parking spaces. To get near the school's office often required parking a couple of blocks away. This was difficult if you were trying to get into the school on a lunch break or on the way to work. Teachers never returned e-mails or phone calls. I spent a couple of hours every week trying to determine what my daughter's assignments were, but rarely got answers. I was at the school every week and often several times during the week. Finally, I gave up on that school, pulled my daughter from high school and sent her to the community college to test for her GED. She passed with very high scores. I was happier, she was happier, and the school never cared one way or the other. The message sent to me was that working with a parent was just too much trouble for the school. I really tried to be a strong part of my daughter's school experience, assure that her homework was completed on time, etc. So, I wonder how many other parents cope with lack of school cooperation or interest in parental involvement. Being an educator myself makes it even sadder that her school sent such mixed messages. It can't be both ways. Parents who try to be involved can't have the school telling them they are wanted, then having huge obstacles placed in the way of that involvement by the school. If I had it to do again, I'd home school.

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Still Searching for Eurekas!
Adjunct Professor of Education, University of St. Thomas, Minneapolis, MN

Great article and stuffed with important truths about how to make K-12 learning more successful for more kids.

Want to make it even better? Each learner should have primary responsibility for his or her own learning. Not the parent, not the teacher, not the school, not NCLB....but the student.

Until we involve EACH student in the planning, implementation and assessment of their learning, the sweeping success we all seek won't happen.

Question: Who has primary responsibility for learning?

Answer: The learner. With the help of all the rest of the Village it takes for success to happen.

Mary Mehsikomer's picture

Many parents have limited time to be involved with their child's school due to the pressures of work, family, and home. Let's not neglect the larger community. Schools could also reach out to seniors and singles without children in their communities with volunteer opportunities. A lot of people in these populations would love to help but don't have a good idea how to get involved.

Katie Smith's picture

Tom, I wholeheartedly support your recommendation for empowering the student with his/her own ACTIVE participation in the process. While helping at-risk, high school students study, complete projects, prepare for exams, etc., I was always stunned when they had no idea what they were learning in class; they had no conceptual framework of the curriculum. They would say that they were on "Chapter 12" rather than learning about the legislative process, for example.

In fact, after investigating beginning-of-the-semester practices of teachers, I found that only 3 or 4 teachers shared the entire curriculum/standards for the course with their students. I likened this practice of keeping learners on a need-to-know basis with attempting to plan a road trip by only having access to a square inch of the map at a time, where the route is already planned, you have no access to alternate routes, you can only see what's just outside your vehicle, oh, and you're in the backseat. Unfortunately, this approach has a lot of would-be educational explorers saying, "Wake me up when we get there."

Iris's picture

I think support from people like you is vital. With high stakes testing and scripted programs (and did I hear correctly that Florida was going to pay teachers according to how their students perform? Can the states sink any lower?) most public school teachers are stressed out and do not have time for any of the more interesting projects. Private school teachers have much more leeway. And Public schools cost the gov't less, so they really don't want public schools to look good. Parents influence policy more than teachers do - don't forget that. When people choose private schools over public rather than trying to change policies "the rich get richer and the poor get poorer".

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While the school complained that parents weren't monitoring their children's academic life, they shut parents out. First in the whole parking lot there were only two visitor parking spaces. To get near the school's office often required parking a couple of blocks away. This was difficult if you were trying to get into the school on a lunch break or on the way to work. Teachers never returned e-mails or phone calls. I spent a couple of hours every week trying to determine what my daughter's assignments were, but rarely got answers. I was at the school every week and often several times during the week. Finally, I gave up on that school, pulled my daughter from high school and sent her to the community college to test for her GED. She passed with very high scores.
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