Family Engagement

Back-to-School Night: The Ultimate Conversation Starter for a Successful School Year

When establishing that first contact with parents on back-to-school night, start the year right by being transparent, direct, and consistent.

September 11, 2014 Updated August 26, 2015
Photo credit: Berkeley Unified School District via flickr (CC BY-NC-SA 2.0)

For teachers, fall, not January, marks the New Year. It's the time to kick off a new beginning, make new resolutions, and set new expectations. And there is no better time to relay these hopes and dreams (OK, plans) than at Back-to-School Night.

As a former classroom teacher, I always relished this first touch point of communication with parents -- the chance to outline expectations, procedures, and goals for my students, hoping that if I were upfront and clear from the get-go, there'd be fewer surprises come time for parent-teacher conferences. It was also my opportunity for listening to and fielding questions early in the year to quell any misconceptions and ease any anxieties. (Kids aren't the only ones anxious about going back to school!)

Over the years, I relied on three tried-and-true tenets for a successful Back-to-School Night, yet I’ve refined them due to the ripple that technology has thrown into the "typical" school year.

1. Be Transparent

In this era of global classrooms, connected education, and home-to-school connections, educators and parents need clear lines of communication now more than ever. You don't need me to underscore how technology is throwing a curve ball for teaching and learning -- it's a sport that most parents don't fully understand because they didn't grow up in that arena. A crucial part of achieving the objectives for 21st century learning skills (PDF) is to keep all stakeholders in the know about the changing landscape and the ever-evolving tech space. Back-to-School Night allows you to set that tone for the next 180 or so days.

Have a Common Language

Education is filled with buzzwords! A Digital Glossary levels the playing field by helping everyone speak (or at least understand) all of the nuanced jargon. It can help parents understand the subtle differences between individualized learning and personalized learning. They'll appreciate the intent of your methodology more if they understand what exactly you mean by flipped learning. And they can try to stay up to date, like we all try to do, on the latest and greatest social media apps.

Explain Your Thinking

Outline which websites and apps you plan to use in your teaching. How does this tech enhance (not just supplant) your instruction? How is your students’ privacy protected? Let your parents know how you will use these tools and programs to differentiate and adapt your instruction to your students' varied learning styles. Explain how these tools can provide vital insight into individual students' strengths and weaknesses. Consider curating your own version of a Top Picks list of apps and sites that parents can use at home to support their kids' in-class learning.

2. Be Direct

When we send students home with devices like tablets or laptops, we can be seen as encroaching on parents' turf. Many parents tell us at Common Sense that they feel bamboozled, not because they're against any specific educational technology, but because they haven't been prepared to think about their family's expectations and procedures (a.k.a., rules and consequences!) around that technology's use.

Invite in Parents

Invite parents to be part of the digital shift in your school’s culture. They can be your best advocates. They know their kids the best, so recognize them as the experts by encouraging school-based conversations about raising responsible and respectful digital citizens. Oh, it does take a whole village! Check the turnkey Connecting Families modules that can be used throughout a school year.

Set Expectations

You probably have clear expectations in mind for how you want your students to harness the power of technology -- while minding the pitfalls. But your expectations might not be the same as your families’. Back-to-School Night is a great time for you to get a better understanding of your families’ feelings and attitudes about technology in general. Check out the surveys, quizzes, and media logs in our Family Toolbox, which can help you gain insight to how your students and their families use technology at home. Then urge parents to jumpstart the conversation about expectations at home using a Family Media Agreement (PDF) or Customizable Device Contract (PDF). We know that school and home expectations around technology probably won't align perfectly, but kids are adaptable, and they can subscribe to different guidelines as long as the expectations are clearly outlined from the get-go.

3. Be Consistent

Starting at back-to-school night, make it a goal to help parents feel comfortable and familiar with what's going on inside your four walls, especially as it relates to technology.

Stay True

Make sure that all your stakeholders, parents and kids alike, understand your classroom’s and your school’s expectations. Be ready to decode your school's or district's Acceptable Use Policies (AUPs) or Responsible Use Policies (RUPs). These documents are often loaded with legal terminology, for which you might need to be the translator. What friendly reminders can you emphasize on a classroom poster or via a letter home to parents? Be consistent on how you remind and enforce the outlined expectations throughout the year.

Keep 'Em in the Loop

Consider how you will let families know what has been happening on a weekly or bi-weekly basis. Will you email newsletters or maybe create a class website? What protocols will you set about sharing photos, etc.? Keep your classroom families up-to-date on the opportunities and challenges that kids face in today's 24/7, always-on, digital world. Find relevant advice in our Topic Centers – or just simply embed our Blog Widgets into your class' site.

Talking with parents about current topics related to technology allows us educators to overcome the obstacles and embrace the opportunities that technology affords our students. The research shows us that when teachers, students, and parents communicate effectively, learning improves (PDF). So how will you enable a clear channel of teacher-family communication throughout the year? Please tell us about it in the comments below, and here's wishing you a successful Back-to-School Night -- and a great new school year, too!

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