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A Parent's Resource Guide to Social and Emotional Learning

Explore a curated list of blogs, articles, and videos for parents about fostering skills like kindness, empathy, gratitude, resilience, perseverance, and focus in children.
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Encouraging Kindness and Empathy

  • Cultivating Kindness and Compassion in Children (Center for Child and Family Well-Being, University of Washington, 2014)

    This summary of a public lecture by Kimberly Schonert-Reichl underscores the importance of promoting social and emotional learning, reviews some of the research about cultivating kindness and compassion in children, and discusses five practical strategies that parents can try. For even more parent tips, read Schonert-Reichl's Kindness Booklet.

  • Why It’s Imperative to Teach Empathy to Boys (KQED MindShift, 2014)

    Gayle Allen and Deborah Farmer Kris discuss the importance of empathy and the gender stereotypes that may put boys at risk for failing to learn this important skill; the authors describe three strategies that parents of boys can implement.

  • Raising Kind Kids (Greater Good Science Center, 2012)

    In this brief video from the Greater Good Science Center, University of California, Berkeley, parenting expert Christine Carter offers tips to parents on how to foster kindness and generosity in children.

  • Raising Caring, Respectful, and Courageous Children (Harvard Graduate School of Education, 2013)

    Richard Weissbourd, co-director of the Making Caring Common Project at the Harvard Graduate School of Education, advises parents about raising caring, respectful, and courageous children.

  • 2nd-Grader’s Cure for Playground Loneliness: A Buddy Bench (Huffington Post, 2013)

    Second-grader Christian Bucks noticed that some of his friends didn’t have anyone to play with at recess. With the support and encouragement of his parents and the help of school administration, he was able to bring an idea called the "Buddy Bench" to fruition. On a related note, check out "The Doorman," a video from the CBC that tells the story of how high school student Josh Yandt brought greater positivity to his school through a simple action.

  • Five-Minute Film Festival: Nine Videos on Kindness, Empathy, and Connection (Edutopia, 2013)

    VideoAmy compiled this moving playlist of videos to explore the importance of human relationships and the power of being kind, generous, and compassionate.

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Cultivating Perseverance and Resilience

  • How Do We Help Kids Make Better Choices? Let Them Practice (Edutopia, 2012)

    School administrator Matt Levinson stresses that mistakes are a necessary part of learning and suggests that allowing children to navigate challenging situations on their own can help them build frameworks for arriving at more successful outcomes.

  • Resilience and Grit: Resource Roundup (Edutopia, 2014)

    This curated collection of blogs, articles, interviews, and videos includes information for parents and educators about the associated concepts of resilience and grit.

  • Resilience Guide for Parents & Teachers (American Psychological Association)

    This guide to helping children develop skills of resilience includes useful tip lists and specific considerations for children of different ages, including those in preschool, elementary school, middle school, and high school.

  • Tips for Resilience in the Face of Horror (Greater Good, 2013)

    Jason March, founding editor-in-chief of Greater Good, describes how educators and parents can help protect children and themselves from the effects of vicarious trauma.

  • Talking to Your Children About Tragedy (Bright Horizons, 2013)

    In this video, Brendamarie Contreras, director at Bright Horizons, discusses relevant principles parents can consider in relation to young children and personal or family reactions to traumatic events. Though the introduction to the video is focused on Boston, the principles discussed can be applied to a wide variety of situations.

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Fostering Gratitude

  • How Parents Can Foster Gratitude in Kids, by Andrea Hussong (Greater Good, 2014)

    In this video excerpt, Andrea Hussong discusses some of the research on gratitude in children, takeaways from study data, and strategies parents can use to raise grateful children. For more tips, be sure to check out "Seven Ways to Foster Gratitude in Kids," also from Greater Good.

  • Gratitude Builds Character and Health (Edutopia, 2011)

    Maurice Elias explains what the research says about gratitude and the benefits for character and health.

  • Fostering an Attitude of Gratitude: Tips for Parents (National Association of School Psychologists, 2009)

    This downloadable tip list, adapted from work by Karen Reivich, PhD, University of Pennsylvania, and Jeffery Froh, PsyD, Hofstra University, features simple acts and activities that parents can use with children to help them feel and express gratitude.

  • 10 Ways to Raise a Grateful Kid (PBS Parents)

    Homa Tavangar outlines ten strategies for parents hoping to foster a sense of gratitude in their children.

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Mindfulness, Emotional Intelligence, and Focus

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Home, School, and Community Partnerships

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Children’s Social Selves and Technology

Find more parent resources about bullying and cyberbullying prevention in Edutopia's "Resources to Fight Bullying and Harassment at School." These two tips lists are also good references for parents:

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Additional Resources

  • Playing Nicely With Others: Why Schools Teach Social and Emotional Learning (The New York Times, 2014)

    In this article for parents, Jessica Lahey outlines the reasons why increasing amounts of school resources are being devoted to social and emotional learning and goes over the benefits for children.

  • The Children We Mean to Raise: The Real Messages Adults Are Sending About Values (Making Caring Common Project, Harvard Graduate School of Education, 2014)

    This report, based in part on a survey of 10,000 middle and high school students, takes a hard look at the messages adults give to children about caring for others, happiness, and achievement and provides guidelines to help shift the balance. Visit the website for the Making Caring Common Project to find additional "Strategies & Tips" for parents and caretakers.

  • Confident Parents Confident Kids (Jennifer Miller)

    Parent Jennifer Miller writes a regular blog for parents on how to support social and emotional development in children.

  • Why Parents Should Apologize When They Lose Their Cool (NBC Parent Toolkit, 2014)

    In this article for the NBC Parent Toolkit, Maurice Elias describes the elements that contribute to an effective parental apology and what this teaches children. Find more information about how to support your child’s social and emotional development by visiting other sections of the Parent Guide.

  • Parenting Coach (Understood.org)

    In Parenting Coach, on the website for Understood, parents can browse expert practical advice targeting social, emotional, and behavioral challenges that affect children of all ages.

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Do you know of other useful resources, or are there other types of resources you'd like to see included on this page? Please share your feedback in the comments.

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Doing Good Together™'s picture
Doing Good Together™
Doing Good Together™ offers family-friendly volunteer ideas & fun kindness activities to help busy families grow big hearts.

We love this list of valuable resources! In addition to these great finds, we suggest our projects, reading recommendations, and conversation tips found on our website, especially in our Big-Hearted Families(tm) program. We promote not only kindness lessons, but also the idea of family service and volunteering as a way to teach kids the benefits of giving to others and helping their community.

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