Should sex education happen in class or online?

In an ideal world, the parents would all responsibly and properly teach their children about sex. I know of far too many parents who don't "do their job." To leave it up to them in the REAL world is simply irresponsible.
I have students who haven't seen parents in years, who have parents who are abusive or negligent, parents who don't have the proper information themselves. In this case those with stable, caring, informed parents would get the information correctly, and those that need it the most would get it the least. We have to understand that our individual experiences are not the same as that of out students, and we owe them the best, most complete information available.

Sex education should be taught in the classroom. It is obvious from current statistics that the sex education students are receiving from other sources is inadequate. I feel that the way in which we go about educating the students on sex education should also be changed. Yes, it is necessary to emphasize the importance of abstinence; however, we cannot forget those students who have already ignored the idea of it. Provide them with other information. Teach them how to wear condoms and provide them for the student body. Pass out brochures about STDs that also informs them on where they can go to get checked out. It is obvious that a majority of the students opinions on sex has changed and, therefore; our ideas need to change. Focus on keeping those of our future healthy instead of hiding the truth.

I am a science teacher and parent of a teenager. I am required to teach "sex ed" in my science class. I personally don't have a problem teaching the program as we use an authentic abstinence based sex education program that involves the parents. It has been great as the parents see the program and embrace it as well. Students ask parents questions at home about what they faced when they were teenagers and how they handled these situations. This program opens up the lines of communication with parents that other programs don't. We have great discussions in the class and continually urge students to discuss sensitive issues with their parents. We all know from when we were teenagers it is easier to ask our friends than our parents and this program has provided students the opportunities to discuss sex at home with their parents in a non-threatening environment.

Sex education should be taught by the parent as this is an embarresing subject for the tender teen. My experience was in Health Education class in HS. My teacher was hot after me and any question I had he would explain in horrible detail from the beginning. My Mother never spoke a word to me but did attend sex ed movies with me. She would ask if I had any questions but since the subject was scary for her why would I ask anything? I never heard anything about moral issues, self-esteem issues or that I could just say NO. So my 1st experience was just because everybody else was doing it so it was time for me to join in at 16. I got pregnant and had an abortion. That was the consequence of her inability. I hear alot about how parents should be the only teachers of sex ed. Well one such couple are graduates of UofA and an engineer and CPA. The subject of sex came up when I explained to my Grandson why a dog has testicles that hang down from it's body. This couples son heard the story and her reply was "a man and woman agree to have a child and pregnancy happens" This boy knew better than that so he kept pushing. Her next brilliant reply was that while parents agree they roll around on top of each other. Given my experience with parents inabilities what chance does her two children have? These are not idiot parents (or are they?) Online and in class are complements to what a parent should teach. Most parents can't talk about it as I feel they see sex as a moral issue (a purity issue-give me a break) sex is life's love for itself. Don't be fooled. Women are not given the foreknowledge of knowing when pregnancy can happen (such as an animal in heat) and most young people are ignorant to the fact that it CAN happen to them. Has anyone heard the expression "one thing lead to another and it just happened" If women knew exactly when pregnancy could occur I think there would be far fewer births. If lust wasn't hard wired into a young man's mind he wouldn't live in the life cycle of thinking about sex every 10 minutes of so. And let's not forget the media's ever-present bombardment that has no moral implication attached to it's warped idea of such a beautiful act between two lover's in love. Nature attaches the highest of sensations to this union in order to urge us to the next sexual opprotunity so that pro-creation can occur.And since we are all alive aren't we happy it did? Most parents are not the best teachers of sex. Most teachers don't have the ability to teach in ways a parent can given the love a child has, and online learning can be both a gift and a curse. My speech to my children is that it is best to save this expression for marriage as sex is tied up to heart strings and marriage is a safer haven for tenderhearts. I say that it is a beautiful expression two bodies feel as one and that pro-creation is it's objective. We are blessed with means for contraception and protection and that to engage in sexual activity without a sober mind can have life-long consequences. And aren't we as a society suffering these consequences. What a lovely world it would be if all children were conceived in love? The self-esteem issues alone would be Earth-shattering not to mention health issues and political implications.

I feel both would be just fine; however, the parents or parent must be informed that it will be taking place. It's important that the parent have an open discussion about what the child learns. It's also an opportunity for the parent to educate their child about peer pressure, SDT's, especially Aids since it does kill, self respect, and that NO means NO. Hopefully the child will feel comfortable when the time is right to ask for support from their parents when peer pressure is at it's highest.