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Bullying in the Middle School

Heather Wolpert-Gawron Middle School teacher by day, Tweenteacher by night

Bullying comes in many different forms, and by middle school the damage that a bully can inflict can last for a lifetime. For some kids the bullying is an extension of that which occurred in elementary school. For others, it begins in middle school, when the differences in sizes, shapes, and personalities become more evident, gaining more attention from peers and schoolyard enemies.

For middle schoolers, the internal conflict of "Who am I? Am I the same as everyone or different from everyone?" takes on an external nature and, at times, manifests itself in bullying.

But are we doing enough to combat the different forms of bullying? Does the staff at your school know what forms bullying takes, where bullying occurs (both on and off campus), and what their role in fighting bullying is?

Are students at ease in finding an adult to confide in?

Do students really know what bullying is, or do they "suck it up" and keep quiet because it's "just the way things are?"

For that matter, do teachers feel it's just the way things are, or worse, do teachers bully as well?

What happens when the formally oppressed become the tormentors? Does that change how a school reacts to a bully?

It is our duty as teachers to look at ourselves clearly and honestly to help find answers to these questions. It is our responsibility to keep these students safe in our care as well as to help them achieve. And, let's face it, a frightened student does not an achiever make.

Join in the discussion and share your thoughts, anecdotes, and solutions.

-Heather WG

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Health Science & Life Skills Middle School teacher from MA

Many students come to me

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Many students come to me about bullying and I make sure that it is dealt with. There are a number of ways to do this. Students and parents can seek help from guidance or admin. Students can also tell a teacher that he/she knows will listen and act on the info. Parents are key to helping since a lot of the bullying that occurs is happening in cyberspace and outside of school. When what happens outside of school trickles into school and affects students at school, the adults at school must step in. As a health educator, I am trying to give the kids the necessary tools and skills to deal with the bullying. "It takes a village" and it just can't all be rectified in school.

In the world the parent-child relationship is one of the longest lasting so

Nice thoughts you can share

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Nice thoughts you can share with us and it post is 100% true. The Bullying is somewhat that will forever happen. It is something that cannot be closed, but as we produce older bullying is not as big of a deal as it is when one is in their youth years. That is my opinion the bullying has increased, and has always been a huge problem in our social order. We may not observer someone being bullied physically, but that is because bullying is now increasing through many social networking websites. This is a suicide caused from the effects of bullying.

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Bullying is something which

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Bullying is something which every individual faces at a young age. Bullying is an activity which is wrong as it mentally disturbs a person. A student getting bullied should immediately inform his teachers, so that teachers and the school can take actions. Thus, it is the responsibility of the school to keep the students in a safe place.

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Standing Up To Bullying: Refusing to Be a "Victim"

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What happens when we identify kids as "victims" of bullying? Read how we can help kids avoid becoming victims in "Standing Up to Bullying: Refusing to Be a Victim."
http://inspiringstudentmotivation.blogspot.com/2012/08/standing-up-to-bu...

Seventh Grade science teacher from Orinda, California

Refusing to be a victim resonates

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Yes, I think that's key and I speak as one who has been tempted to frame bad situations up that way. It's almost like others can smell out a person who does not have a secure sense of self, a brutal pecking order thing that takes us straight back to our animal selves.

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Dealing With Students Who Bully: The Essential First Step

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Because bullying is so ugly, it's often a challenge to deal with kids who bully. Here are some thoughts on how to manage ourselves when we need to interact with students who bully: "Dealing With Students Who Bully: The Essential First Step."
http://inspiringstudentmotivation.blogspot.com/2012/08/dealing-with-stud...

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Dealing With Students Who Bully: Part II

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After establishing your role and goal, here are some ideas about how to deal effectively with kids who bully:
http://inspiringstudentmotivation.blogspot.com/2012/08/dealing-with-stud...

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School bullying refers to all

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School bullying refers to all types of bullying done on school property, whether it is peer-to-peer bullying, bullying of younger children by older children, or bullying in which a teacher is either a victim or a culprit. Keep reading for more information on school bullying.

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Free Anti Bullying book

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For Anti Bullying Month, I am GIVING AWAY my new book, Teen Juggernaut to any Edutopia readers that email me at robleegarcia@yahoo.com, and ask for it. Its fully illustrated and has chapters on self esteem, dealing with bullies, choosing a career, doing better in school, military life, going to college for reduced or free tuition, and much more. Its written for teens 12-18. The preview can be found by typing Teen Juggernaut in the lulu website. Thanks for all you do. I only taught for five years but loved every minute.

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Bullying: Prevention vs Intervention

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I hope you'll take a few minutes to read "Bullying: Prevention vs Intervention." Here's the link:
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